Plagiarism on the internet

Jun17

Earlier today I saw my online friend Sara from Inflamed and Untamed complaining. Now if anyone of you have seen her videos or read her blogs, you know she is a kind-hearted person. For her to be pissed off, something bad had to have happened. Sure enough, she was writing how someone stole her story and put it for themselves. The worst thing is that this time (yes I said this time) it was a guy stealing the info.

Over the past month or so, Sara has been talking about how people are selling her bracelets as their own and using parts of her blog as their own also. They give no credit to Sara and they are passing their work off as their own. Today I think was the last straw when it was a guy doing it. He took her “about me” section of her blog and posted it on his site to make it look like his.

My first question is Why? Why would you want to steal someones elses bio to make it look like your own. I don’t get it. Also, why would you want to steal any of the blog? If you are choosing to create a blog online and open yourself up to others…then do it. Give out your own details.

Now when I sit down to write my blogs, I never look at someone else’s first. I just log on and write what is on my mind. Blogging is like a journal only everyone in the world can see it. What I write comes from my heart and mind. I refuse to use someone else’s words. What would be the point. Also, I want to point out that blogging is a choice. No one is forced to write a blog. It is a conscious choice one makes. so why steal someone else’s words. I don’t get it.

My second question, and this is directed to anyone plagiarizing, Who the hell do you think you are? Where do you get off stealing someone else’s thoughts and words. Sara is very popular in the IBD community. Did you think no one would notice that you are stealing her words?

Now I am still small potatoes. Not many people are reading this right now, so I don’t worry about plagiarism. But one day I want to be as big and popular as Sara. And when I am that big, I hope no one chooses to steal my work. I, like every blogger out there, have chosen to open our hearts to the world. They are our thoughts.

Now, there is a way to copy-write your work online. Sara has recently done that, but from what she told me, it only covers her blog, not her bio. To me this is just wrong. It should be that if you get a copy write, it should be for all information not just some. In real life, if you steal someones name and information and use it elsewhere, you can go to jail. It is illegal. But if you go online and do the same, apparently it is ok. There is something wrong with that.

I hope anyone that reads this will agree with me but please do not repost this as your own work. You may share the blog, but do not pass this work off as your own. I am from NY originally. We don’t take kindly to theft. Also, I truly believe in the words of David Banner…”Don’t make me angry. You won’t like me when I’m angry”.

And Sara, if you are reading this…I know I joked about it on Facebook, but I hopefully didn’t steal any of your work. 🙂

Mood Music…What is Yours?

Jun15

IBD, as with any chronic illness, can bring a person down. Between the gut pain, joint pain, butt pain, etc. a person can get really depressed. I know, I have been there. So one way to get out of the funk I have found is to listen to music. But not just any music. It is what I call Mood Music. This would be songs that help you relate to the world, songs that get you into a good mood. Lately I have been listening to the same couple of songs on my computer. I have been doing a lot of talking with fellow IBDers online and these songs keep popping into my head. So I want to share a little of what has been getting me motivated and moving lately. Be Warned…some of the songs are cheesy..but they help.

So here is a short list of the songs I am listening to right now and why I have chosen to listen to them.

1) Inside Job by Pearl Jam. – This song was written by Mike McCready about his experience with Crohn’s Disease. I love Pearl Jam but have never listened to this song before. I never got into their late 90’s and 2000 songs. I regret that now because this song is really good.

2) Call Me Maybe by Carly Rae Jepson – Ok, this is cheesy. But I have been reading lately a lot about people with IBD and how hard it is to have a relationship. This just reminds me of how hard it is just to meet someone when you are sick with a disease.

3) What Makes You Beautiful by One Direction – So many people feel ugly with Crohn’s and Colitis. They have so much pain at times that they don’t want to beautify themselves. Then when they look in the mirror all they see are the scars of the disease. But everyone….EVERYONE is beautiful. This song just is a reminder of that.

4) Beautiful by Christina Aguilera – This again plays into the previous message. But really listen to the words. This song is about believing you are beautiful no matter what anyone says. This is showing your self-confidence, which all IBDers need.

5) What Doesn’t Kill You (Stronger) by Kelly Clarkson – This is just a powerful song that gets you up out of your chair and moving. You are strong and can do anything. These disease make us all stronger. We live through the pain and depression. We go through so much and that just makes us stronger.

So that is just a sampling of my music selection that I have been listening to lately. I would love to hear some suggestions on what to add to that list. I also would love to hear what other people are listening to. Let me know.

IBD and Sensitivity

Jun9

Over the weekend my eyes were opened to just how insensitive people can be, especially to someone with IBD. Most names will be left out so as not to totally offend the parties involved in the incident.

Many of you might read Crohn’s Advocate and recently read an article in there about Mike McCready who is the lead guitarist for Pearl Jam. The article talks about his struggles with Crohn’s Disease and how he turned it into a positive experience. I found this article to be great and I found a new respect for him and Pearl Jam. So, on Friday night, while on Facebook, I saw a link from The Great Bowel Movement directing everyone to Like a comment made by another activist to a radio DJ in Chicago. Turns out this DJ made a comment (I believe on air) about how Mike McCready should have stayed silent about his disease and referenced the article on their Facebook page.

Well, that was enough to set me off. Attack a fellow IBDer from one of my favorite bands of all time. Gloves were off. The original activist that heard the comment was heading out and couldn’t continue to fight this battle, so I picked up the baton and ran like the wind. I must have posted in 10 different groups on Facebook with a link and description of what happened. I then went to Twitter and Tumblr and again posted. I also Twitted Mike himself to let him know what happened. I don’t know if he read the Tweet.

As of 7:30 pm on Saturday there are 91 comments on the Facebook page from many IBDers. Everyone was attacking the DJ. Eventually the DJ tried to apologize, but he compared what we go through with his withdrawal from drugs. Needless to say that drew more irate comments.

I truly couldn’t believe how many people flocked to Mike’s defense. It brought tears to my eyes that I could not only rally so many people to help out Mike but that so many people could be so open about their disease.

People…Crohn’s and Colitis is a serious disease. It isn’t just a stomach flu or some slight tummy ache. There is a lot going on within the body with these diseases. When will people realize that they are serious diseases. If your going to talk about any disease, joking or not, make sure you know about it. Don’t be ignorant.

Mike McCready…if you are reading this (I know your not but I can dream), you have a community behind you. You have done so much for us and we have your back. Thank you for all that you have done, all the money you have raised, and blessing us with your sweet sound that your fingers make. Keep up the great work and help stamp out not only IBD but stupidity and insensitivity.

Who runs our medical community?

Jun6

As someone with Crohn’s Disease, I use a lot of medicine over the course of the year. Whether it is medicine for my Crohn’s, supplements, other ailments (thanks to CD), or just routine medicine, I spend a lot of money. Recently, I received a letter in the mail from my prescription insurance saying that I am only allowed to get 90 days worth of a med from a pharmacy and then I have to use their mail order service.

Ok, so let me get this straight. Instead of being able to go to my local pharmacy of my choice to get a med that I might need right away, I now have to use a service run by an insurance company and wait days to get it in the mail. REALLY????

I need to say first that this is my own opinion. I am not speaking on behalf of anyone but myself.

So, when did corporate America start running our healthcare system. I know it has been going on for a long time..but come on. Not only can you not see any doctor you want, but now I can’t use any pharmacy I want. It was bad when HMO’s came around and all of a sudden they started telling you which doctors you can see and not see. You want to see an allergists? Well, first go to your general practitioner, have them look at you and then get a referral. And you can’t just see anyone. No he has to be in our network. Oh the closest doctor in our network is 30 miles away…we don’t care. Now they are doing the same with our medicine.

The best was when I needed to get approval to take Humira. My insurance wouldn’t cover it. They wanted me to take Methotrexate first. So an insurance company that doesn’t know me or my history is telling me what medicines to take. I think not. And now they are telling me where to get my meds.

What really gets me is what happens when you don’t have any insurance. Well, then you are screwed. If you can’t afford insurance, then the drug companies assume you can’t afford the medicine so you’re not getting it. The same with doctors. No insurance…we then you can’t afford to see me so I can’t see you anymore.

What happened to the days of house calls. What happened to “I’ll take whatever you can afford”. When did doctors stop caring?

Now I know a lot of doctors will be mad at me for writing this..but I don’t care. I hate that it takes weeks to find a doctor. I hate that they all work 9-5 Monday thru Friday. I hate that I have a chronic illness and it is so hard to get treated for it. I live in a very big metropolis area. If I find it hard…what do people in small towns do?

We need to start listening to and caring about our sick a lot more. We need to tell corporations…get out of our medical community.